Scent, scene, music.. They all create that sudden hold up and you just stare blankly as if you were transported back in time. De javu you say but it's not. Those are memories stored in your subconscious already and being released gradually. There are also night you think you have sequelled dreams but it is more of subconscious on the move.
Our subconscious is the memory keeper of our brain. Too powerful once you unleash the true power and you know how to deal with it. All you say, think and write are all stored in your subconscious. And yes, dreams can be the product of too much thinking or better yet, day dreaming. Though there are aplenty of explanations why dreams occur.
The year that was. All those happenings will be left in closed book unless you keep on flipping the pages of the past. Whatever had happened to you good or bad, remember to be open to change this year.
There are 365 days in one year, will you allow even a single day to be stolen because you will be held captive of your what-ifs? Let go! Do not regret anything that you have done because at some point that same regret you have now had been your source of smile back then. We are not a product of circumstance but our own decisions. We step to the right or left is pushed by our choices. We maneuver our lives. The time you realized what wrong have you done, try analyzing in depth and avoid commiting the same mistake because the second you did it again, it's already stupidity.
Advice is often we give freely but we can not freely accept once the situation strikes back at us. But learn to step back and watch your life like a movie not just seeing others on a one way mirror.
Most often than not, once there's an unsolicited advice, we tend to let go, become defensive and elated. But check your age, status and where are you already, look back, would you allow yourself to be hung again. Also, check on your support system. Are they holding on or letting you also go because what you're doing is plain childishness?
Strike a pose. Sit down. Think.
Life is how you make it. It is composed of your choices.
2013 is gone.
2014 is here.
Revise.
Renew friendship with friends who never judged your character and who are there despite the darkness you felt.
Revisit your inner self.
Contemplate.
If relationship is worth saving, time to reconsider but it is also time to eliminate all those who make you feel like junk.
Memories will linger.
It's up to you what to entertain and which ones to block.
Meditate.
Soon, you will get used to what memories you will allow your subconscious to uncork and absorb and those to be unleased and dismissed.
